Gay Speed Dating in London | Ages 25-45

Discover our brand-new gay speed dating nights at the legendary Village Soho, the perfect place to meet real people in the heart of London’s LGBTQ+ scene.

Forget scrolling and swiping. This is your chance to connect face to face in a lively and welcoming atmosphere where conversations actually flow.

Throughout the evening, you will rotate through a series of quick-fire mini dates, meeting around 10 to 15 guys in total. The pace is fun, relaxed, and designed to help you feel at ease from the start.

After the event, log in to our website to select who you would like to see again. The next day, you will receive your mutual matches and can start chatting privately right away.

Spaces are limited, and our Village Soho launch events are expected to fill up quickly. Book your place now.

Important information

This event takes place in the private upstairs bar. Staff will direct you upon arrival.

- Doors open 7.00 pm

- Event starts 7.30 pm

- Speed dating finishes approximately 9.30 pm

- Venue closes 11.30 pm

You must arrive before 7.25 pm in order to take part. We might not be able to allow entry if you are late.

* The included welcome cocktail is chosen by the venue. A non-alcoholic alternative drink is also available.

How it works

When you arrive at the venue you’ll meet our friendly hosts. We’ll split the room in half then briefly explain the format of the event and you’ll be straight into your first date.

You’ll have 4 minutes to meet and briefly get to know each date. We’ve found that 4 minutes is just long enough to find out if you'd like to see someone again but not too long if you don't.

After meeting each guy, you need to decide if they are a ‘yes’ a ‘no’ or a ‘friend’ and jot down any notes to help you remember them. You'll find out who you matched with the next day and you can message your matches via our app or website.

We'll have a short break halfway through for you to top up your drinks.

After the event

Once the speed dating is over we'll allow time at the end to mingle with your fellow speed daters, but this is often when the fun really starts. Most people stay at the bar for a few drinks and get to know the people they like a little better.

For no additional charge and more ticket availability, please book tickets directly via our website.